A Blast From the Past and How I Came to Love Hockey

22 07 2008

I received something very exciting today!  It is a copy of the March 3, 1980 Sports Illustrated in excellent condition.  What is so exciting about that, you ask?  It is, of course, the issue with the famous cover of the 1980 US Olympic Hockey Team’s defeat of the Soviet Union.  One of my closest friend’s husband is a huge sports fan and has quite the collection of baseball cards and other sports memorabilia.  He is also the Head Thief over at Landthieves, an excellent and hilarious blog on University of Oklahoma and Big 12 sports.  His game previews are a must read every week during football season.  Anyway, he was going through a box of old SI’s issues and found this issue.  Knowing my love/obsession of this team, he gave me the copy.  Words cannot express my gratitude. 

 

My love/obsession of hockey started right here.  The first hockey game I ever watched was their game defeating the Soviet Union.  I was 17 and a junior in high school.  I distinctly remember watching the game with my dad and being so overwhelmed by the emotions of the game.  I also remember being overwhelmed by how cute all the players were as well!  I was 17, remember, and just the right age to fall in love with these guys.  Unfortunately, after the Olympics were over there was very little hockey to be watched in Clifton, Texas in 1980. 

Fast forward twenty-seven years to summer 2007.  I had just come through the most difficult year of my life.  In a span of 9 months, I had lost my mother, my job and then my dad.  It had been a difficult few years leading up to that time with my mom having Alzheimers and my dad having several health issues.  We had had to downsize them to a smaller house a couple years before, not an easy task when dealing with an Alzheimers patient.  Then had had to put Mom into the dementia unit of the local nursing home the year before.  My father’s health had continued to deteriorate and we moved him into an assisted living apartment when my mom died.  I had gone back to work part time about six months before my mom died, and loved my job.  I had been there about a year when some changes were made and I was no longer needed.  I was devastated.  Only three months later, my dad had a heart attack, developed pneumonia and died.  I became very depressed, to say the least. 

That summer we were looking for anything we could find that would be uplifting.  We love sports movies and I started looking around for ones we hadn’t seen yet.  That is when we first watched the movie, “Miracle” about the 1980 US Olympic Hockey team.  I was immediately transported back to my living room in 1980.  There I was, 17 again, watching the game with my dad.  I was intrigued with the story and found the book The Boys of Winter.  I read it and re-read it.  Not only did I love the original story but was fascinated by how well most of the players had seemed to weather the storm of fame that followed.  I also found this game of hockey, that he so eloquently described, to be mesmerizing.  I’ve always loved watching skating competitions of all kinds, speed, figure and dance, but had never paid much attention to hockey.  Up until then, most of what I had known of hockey was the 15 seconds of highlights on the evening sports.  Which usually consisted of a couple of goals and a fight or two.  I assumed they were just a bunch of barbarians duking it out on skates.  But this book described something completely different. 

When hockey season began, we decided to watch some Stars games and see what we thought.  I was amazed.  The skill level required was incredible.  I began going on line and reading whatever I could find about the games.  By Christmas I was completely addicted.  We attended our first game in person, the week after Christmas.  It was the 8-3 blowout over the Wild.  Over the rest of the season, we attended several more games, including the final game of the season against San Jose, which cemented my love of Steve Ott.  I began catching practices when I could, being unemployed, you can do that!  We enjoyed seeing our first playoff game and had fun getting rained on at one of the watch parties.  I became familiar with the local Star bloggers and have since met several of them and have become a regular or irregular, in one case, on blogs for other teams.  I have learned so much and still have so much more to learn! 

We went through some more tough times with a possible layoff/move hanging over our heads for six months, but today, our family is doing great and looking forward to starting a new season with our recently purchased hockey sweaters!  I even have a job interview coming up.  Getting into hockey has helped us get through some difficult times by giving us something benign and positive to focus on when reality was not much fun.  Oddly enough, it has brought our family together as we have discussed players and trades, wins and loses, around our dinner table and cheered together in front of the TV or at the AAC.  All and all, it has been an incredible ride which all started with one game in 1980.   


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9 responses

24 07 2008
Patty (in Dallas)

What a great post, Myra! It’s so great that hockey can actually help you get through tough times.

And that’s such a great magazine to have! You need to get that framed and hung on the wall right away!

30 07 2008
Life_as_a_redhead

Geeze, This is fabulous, I can’t believe it’s really true. How awsome.

30 07 2008
Myra

Truth is stranger than fiction! No, hockey wasn’t the only thing that got us through. Our faith, family and friends have been a huge support to us and I found an excellent counselor to help me with my grief. Oddly enough, she and her family are big hockey fans (something of a rarity around here in football land), so she has been very supportive of my new found interest.

31 07 2008
Life_as_a_redhead

You should try being a Hockey fan here in KS. You might as well tell them you were originally from Mars. They’d have the same expression on their face.

Oh, and I’m also a Denver Broncos fan, In KC Chiefs land. Scary, I know. Sometimes I fear for my safety (not literally) Hockey & the Broncos. Mabe I really am from Mars.

31 07 2008
Myra

Wow, you are a brave soul. When someone finds out I like hockey, I always get the same response. “You like hockey?!?” Apparently, I don’t fit the mold of what they think a hockey fan should be. Imagine that?

For a while we thought we might be moving to Michigan, I held off on buying my Ott jersey because I was afraid I’d get beat up if I wore it up there. :P

31 07 2008
Life_as_a_redhead

I know what you mean. Try wearing a Denver Sweatshirt, in KS.

If you ever find out what a “Hockey fan” is supposed to “look like”. Please let me know. I’ll try to fit the sterotype a bit better.

31 07 2008
Myra

I don’t think we are supposed to be intelligent, articulate and still have all our teeth, but I’ll have to get back to you on that. :D

22 08 2008
Stephanie

I absolutely loved reading your “how I became a hockey fan” story!! It may be a different situation from mine, but the basis is the same – the more I watched / learned about the game, the more I LOVED it – even now and it is an obsession with me (so much so that I LOVE every single thing about it — I love the look of the ice after the zamboni goes over it and the sound of the ice as the players skate on it, I love the “ping” sound the puck makes when it hits the pipes, well – I think you get the idea!!). I’m glad to know that I’m NOT crazy, just a typical [true] female hockey fan! THANKS for sharing (you gave me an idea for a future post on my blog)!

Stephanie

22 08 2008
Myra

Thanks Stephanie!
I totally get what you are talking about and no, you are not crazy. Well, if you are, there are a lot of us crazies out here! I love all those things, too. Whenever I read someone’s post about what they love about hockey, I’m always saying, Oh! I love that too!

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